Well, just as you need to learn what triggers work on your submissive you also need to learn what triggers you.

Do you feel more dominant after you’ve seen a Claude Van Damme or Arnold Schwarzenegger movie, or after you’ve seen Sigourney Weaver kick butt in one of the Alien movies? Do your dominant juices start to flow when you grasp the neck of your submissive and see them melt to their knees in front of you? Does pulling on your leather gear do it for you? Or does pulling yourself up to your full height and experiencing yourself towering over your submissive trigger you?

You could just wait for the right muse to strike you, but taking control also means taking control of yourself. Learn about yourself and what drives you so that you can use your own feelings and archetypes to drive your submissive.

Passages lus dans The Control Book de Peter Masters.


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